Kids and Kindness

“In a world where you can be anything- Be Kind.”  This is something that I want my kids to take on.  In a world where so often it’s about “me” and what “I” can get, I want them to be kind.   October was National Bullying Prevention  Awareness Month so I decided what better time than to talk about kindness and stepping out to be someone’s friend even when it’s not ‘cool.’

We created “Kindness Books” and every evening, after dinner we’d sit down and talk about something kind that they did or something kind that was done towards them. Initially, it took some prodding and questions to help them figure out if they could name something kind they did.  The kids are 6 and 3 so they are at the ages where they’ve learned to share and be respectful.  Often, because it’s second nature they don’t realize they were being kind, it was just part of how you’re supposed to act as far as they were concerned.  Little Mr. H would (who is 3) would say “Mommy, I didn’t do anything!” which had him a little upset after realizing this.  I mentioned that he was helping his grandma make biscuits when I came to pick him up and that I thought it was kind of him to be helpful.  Suddenly, he lit up and says “Yeah! It was! I was helping!”

Good Conversations

By the start of the second week, they were so excited about doing this that they’d start the conversation when I picked them up in the afternoon.  Little Miss B would get in the care and say “Mommy, are we going to talk about being kind? Because I have some things I want to tell you!” It wasn’t just about saying what she did for someone it was also about talking about a classmate that held a door open or letting her hold a show and tell toy they brought.  It allowed both of them to recognize that they do good things and see those good things are done for them.

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Doing the Kindness Books not only allowed them to be more conscious of being kind but showed them how often someone does something kind towards them and how that made them feel. It also opened the door for conversation.  Often, I pick them up and ask how the day was and get “it was good” or “ok” so it was nice to talk about events that happened during the day.

Ideas for Acts of Kindness

This next month we’ll be doing “Gracious Books” to talk about things that we are thankful for and how important it is to be thankful.

Is there anything you do with your kids to help promote kindness?

More Post on Kindness-

Teaching Kindness In An Entitled World

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Adorable Aprons

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Cooking has always been a big thing in my family  but during the fall especially I can remember cooking together with both my mom and other relatives in the kitchen.  My mom is an incredible cook and can cook anything.  My dad is the family grill master, and while that is sort of his solo gig we did get to help with sides.

I’ve always liked aprons, and it was always fun when we had “pretty” ones around to play in.  I was recently looking for some aprons for my own kids now and it was difficult to find anything for a little boy.  I came across Flirty Aprons though and they have a great selection of kids aprons as well as alot of choices for women’s aprons and even mens!

 

Women’s Aprons

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Men’s Aprons

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Kids Aprons

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The great thing about aprons is that they can be used for cooking or for crafts.  My favorite kids apron is- 

 

 

Check out the Flirty Aprons  site and share your favorite design!

 

Cooking With Kidstir

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Cooking with kids is a great way to not only bond, but also to teach them valuable skills.  From how to select ingredients, to making healthy eating choices, learning how to measure and more- there are a ton of benefits.  My kids LOVE to help out with cooking in the kitchen. I got the chance to try out Kidstir, a monthly subscription box for free, and I couldn’t have been happier with it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The first box was a “Sandwich” box which had some great ideas for wraps and sandwiches that can be made for lunches.  The great thing about having your child help with making their sandwich is sometimes (I know, I know, not all the time) it can make them more open to trying something a little different.

Inside the box are the recipes as well as some utensils that are kid-friendly.  This box had an orange sandwich spreader and a ‘puzzle’ cut out.  There were also stickers that were for the sub shop sandwichs.

What’s Inside

 

 

The recipes are easy to follow and the directions are very clear, which makes it easy for kids to follow.

My son isn’t a big fan of sandwiches but in helping me make the sandwich spread he was willing to try it.  While he did say he liked it, he only took 3 bites (which isn’t totally unusual for a 3-year-old).

The Kidstir box got a thumbs up from both me and the kids.  We can’t wait to do it again.  Not only is it something I subscribe to but something that I’m considering giving as a gift for my nieces and nephew.

Do you cook with your kids?

 

10 Creative Ways To Make A Sandwich- From Kidstir

 

Kids Make a Sandwich-Kidsstir

Want more resources on cooking with kids? Check these out!

Kids Health from Nemours provides some great direction on kids of all ages and how you can get them involved in the kitchen.

PBS Food and Fitness  share guidelines to help make cooking fun.

Irma threw our schedule completely out of wack.  We’re finally getting back in gear so I’m just now updating the blog.  Thankfully, we’re all ok it was just a very hectic month.  So here’s a little bit of a backstory on the kids hurricane experience and how it went this time…

 Hurricanes and Trying To Keep The Kids Calm

Growing up in Florida, hurricanes are oh so familiar to me. I can remember though, as a kid being absolutely freaked out that the world was going to end.  I want to make sure my kids don’t experience the anxiety that comes with a hurricane, or atleast shield them from as much as I can.

Last Year- The Kids First (Recognized) Hurricane

Last year, Hurricane Matthew came up on the East Coast of Florida. We debated back and forth about leaving but decided to stay.  We have been very blessed the past few years prior in limited to no storms.  Having small kids and dealing with a hurricane is difficult.  Dealing with a hurricane is difficult on anyone- but keeping yourself together and little ones adds to the challenge.

At the time of Hurricane Matthew, our daughter was 5 and our son was 2.  My daughter is a deep thinker.  She analyzes things, which sometimes causes her to worry.   I tried to minimize the weather watching because I knew it would totally freak her out.  She had heard about “the big storm” at school at had seen some of the weather reports.  Putting her to bed one night she started crying asking if the storm would destroy everything.  I did my best to explain that Mommy and Daddy were keeping an eye on things and would keep her safe.  I also told her the ‘special’ things we had bought as part of our hurricane food.  ‘Special’ things being a keyword for junk food.  .

 

The Wait…

We were supposed to get the effects of the storm late on a Friday.  Early that afternoon we went and picked up two pizzas from Mellow Mushroom.  We got one for lunch and one to eat later- don’t judge lol. (The pizzas were gone by 2 am the next morning.  For whatever reason hurricanes make us all really hungry.) The windows were boarded up, which freaked the kids out because normally we have a lot of natural light coming in.   We still had power at this time so I distracted them with being able to eat lunch in the living room and watch tv.  We had power through most of the storm, which was odd because we’ve been known to lose power in a summer thunderstorm (although its typically brief). Never the less, I was thankful.   The power did go out after a few hours causing child panic.  We played games, read books, colored and kept busy.  That night we all slept on the living room floor.  It’s wood so we piled some blankets on to try and make it a little softer.  I grabbed their turtle night lights that projected stars on the ceilings and all was well.

Power was out for 2 ½ days which felt like all eternity at the time.   Lucky for us, my parents got power after one day so we spent the night with them the second night.  Everybody spending the night at the grandparent’s house and sleeping on an air mattress in their living room was fantastic as far as the kids were concerned.

Crisis Averted

The crisis of scaring our kids due to the fear of a storm was averted. Maybe a little too much though.  Afterwards, they kept asking when we’d have another hurricane again and if it could be soon.  It was like the countdown to hurricane season was on.

 

Hurricane Irma

This year when Hurricane Irma came around the kids weren’t as afraid, however, they did want to know what our hurricane plans were.  Would we be having another ‘party’ (aka sleeping in the living room) or would we go away?  This storm was huge and while I felt like we could probably ride it out my husband wanted to leave remembering that no power with little kids is rough.

We went back and forth about where we could go, which was very limited since the state of Florida was all on hurricane watch.  We ended up finding a pet-friendly hotel in Charlotte, North Carolina.   Charlotte is typically 5 ½ hours away from us.  It took us 12 hours to get there.  That was with some back roads.  Did I mention my kids aren’t used to long car rides? They did go through.  My yorkie-poo (who is 13 lbs) did great as well even though initially he didn’t want to get in the car.  We tried to stop at a fast food place on the first 3 exits in Georgia but everything was closed.  It was around noon on Friday.

 

We limited drinks because we wanted to stop as little as possible.  The drive up went as well as it possibly could have under the circumstances.

It was funny because it got dark and the kids both said it was past their bed time.  My son said “Mommy I never been up this long” to which my daughter added “yeah, and it’s really dark in here!” It was 9pm at the time, which they have been up past 9 before but it occurred to me never in a car.  We finally got into our hotel around 11:30.

Saturday

Saturday, we got up and had breakfast at the hotel (YAY for free breakfast!) then ventured out to a farmers market.   The farmers market was big, and they had a lot to look at.  I wish we had big ones like that locally.  My favorite part is the fresh flowers.  I would love to be able to go to the market and pick up fresh flowers!

Charlotte

We googled “Things to do in Charlotte” and one of the options was Sea Life Aquarium.  The aquarium was in the mall so we decided to give it a shot since after the aquarium walking around the mall would give us something to do.  Unfortunately, my phone died so I didn’t get too many pictures 🙁 .

The aquarium was cute.  Thankfully, they were offering 50% off for Florida evacuees.  The kids had a ball!

Sunday

Sunday, we drove to Virginia to see my husband’s great aunt.   She was further away than we initially thought but it was still nice to see her.  On our way there we stopped at a rest stop to walk the dog and let the kids go to the restroom.  There was cases upon cases of water that the Governor had delivered the day before to help though traveling through which was pretty awesome.  I took a picture of it, however (thankfully) we didn’t need any.

Monday

Monday we had planned on trying to go to the zoo, however the weather was awful.  The wind and rain effects of Irma were making their way north.  The next morning there was some roof shingles that were off of the hotel that we could see from out of our window due to the wind that night.

Tuesday we made the extremely long drive home.  It was another 12 hour drive, we even got off to take back roads in order to avoid sitting in traffic.  We avoided stopping as much as possible.  It was difficult because anywhere you stopped there were a ton of cars, and of course the bathrooms were gross which in this case was not the gas station or rest area’s fault.  There’s no way to keep up with it when you have that many people around. We made it home safely though which was the goal.  The next day my daughter says “Mommy, next time we go somewhere let’s take an airplane.  That way it won’t take so long.”  Oh, sweet girl, if you only knew.

 

Did you leave for Irma (or another hurricane)? How’d your trip go?